The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The Sacred Schwing: The Holy Jolt of Wanting Someone
Because desire is the body’s way of saying thank you. It’s a Tuesday. Nothing about it is special. She is standing at the kitchen counter in yesterday’s sweatshirt, waiting for the coffee to finish, and he is up on the step stool, fighting a cabinet hinge that has...
The Magnificent Protocol: A Return to Worth
Reclaiming your self-worth starts with recognizing your inherent value. The Magnificent Protocol is a transformational exercise designed to help people recognize their own magnificence, reclaim their sense of worth, and become capable of receiving and giving...
Discipline and Surrender: The Balance of Strength and Softness
It's all about the explosive release after the discipline ends. Love is not about losing control. It is about choosing—every single day—to trust instead of grip, to listen instead of lecture, to hold instead of fix. It’s the art of knowing when to stand firm, and when...
The Pretty Please Philosophy
Why the sweetest way to ask is the most powerful. Two Women, One Weekend Two women want the same weekend. Big Sur. Fog rolling in off the Pacific, a room with a fireplace, and absolutely nowhere to be on Saturday morning. The first woman has been thinking about it for...
Why I Trademarked Dr. Blow Job
Saving marriages since 2005. One blow job at a time. On a lazy morning in early 2026, I did something that made me seriously question my own judgment. I paid the United States government $350 to file a federal trademark application for “Dr. Blow Job™.” Yes, you read...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
