by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 31, 2026 | Eroticism, Men, Relationships, Sexuality
What every man hopes for — An honest and fearless look at intimacy’s most personal gift. In the lush and complex landscape of modern romantic relationships, physical intimacy often serves as the barometer of the emotional health of the relationship. While sexual...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 20, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Passion, Sexuality, Velvety Steel Balls
You don’t want “safe” music; you want music that rattles the windows and masks the screams. Let’s be honest; is there anything that music doesn’t make better? It turns a mundane car ride into a sold-out stadium tour, makes a soul-crushing gym...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 17, 2026 | Eroticism, Passion, Sexuality, Velvety Steel Balls
The experience most people never have — and everyone deserves. Full-body orgasms. Are they as good as they sound? Honey, they are better than anything you have ever imagined — and I say that as both a clinician and a woman who’s been there. This is not something...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | May 9, 2026 | Love, Men, Sexuality
Erotic novelty socks. They’re a thing. Some women find a man in a perfectly tailored Italian suit irresistible. Others prefer a rugged lumberjack in flannel, a firefighter in uniform, or a shirtless construction worker swinging a hammer. Me? Give me a man in a...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 26, 2026 | Men, Sexuality, Women
Because it’s all good. It began, as most magnificent disasters do, on an unremarkable Tuesday. He was standing at the kitchen counter in his boxers, eating cold lasagna straight out of the Pyrex, frowning at the crossword. He scratched his ribs. He chewed. He...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 19, 2026 | Men, Sexuality, Velvety Steel Balls, Women
Higher education. Lower expectations of clothing. An Institution Whose Time Has Come I’ve spent decades studying human behavior, psychology, relationships, intimacy, and the extraordinary complexity of human love. I’ve earned a Ph.D. in psychology, conducted research,...
