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The Psychological and Relational Significance of Oral Sex for Men

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 31, 2026 | Eroticism, Men, Relationships, Sexuality

What every man hopes for — An honest and fearless look at intimacy’s most personal gift. In the lush and complex landscape of modern romantic relationships, physical intimacy often serves as the barometer of the emotional health of the relationship. While sexual...

The Sonic Coming: Why Music Makes Sex Better

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 20, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Passion, Sexuality

You don’t want “safe” music; you want music that rattles the windows and masks the screams. Let’s be honest; is there anything that music doesn’t make better? It turns a mundane car ride into a sold-out stadium tour, makes a soul-crushing gym...

Full-Body Orgasms: The Infinite Peak

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 17, 2026 | Eroticism, Passion, Sexuality

The experience most people never have — and everyone deserves. Full-body orgasms. Are they as good as they sound? Honey, they are better than anything you have ever imagined — and I say that as both a clinician and a woman who’s been there. This is not something...

The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality, Velvety Steel Balls, Women

How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit for just...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...

Why Strong Men Crave to Be Held (And How to Let Yourself)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality

Men’s hidden tenderness and unspoken longings may be the most erotic things on the planet. You were built to be unshakable—to stand firm in the storm, to carry the weight, to be the rock when everyone else is falling apart. You’ve spent a lifetime proving you don’t...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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