by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 1, 2026 | Dignity, Eroticism, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Sacred, Worship
How to choose the right person and then worship the daylights out of each other Marriage is a peculiar proposition. You meet one person out of approximately eight billion people and eventually decide, Yes. You. You’re the one. I would like to sleep beside you, have...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 9, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women, Worship
Why men deserve to be seen, valued, and cherished. Picture this: It’s 2026, and men are disappearing from the dating scene faster than avocado toast from a millennial’s budget. According to Pew Research, 63% of men under 30 are now single, compared to just 34% of...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 26, 2026 | Dignity, Love, Men, Sacred, Women, Worship
Because some kinds of love are too big for smaller words. The Flinch It happens at dinner parties. It happens at the dentist. It happened once in the checkout line at Costco, which is not where I expected to discuss the theology of desire, but there we were, between...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 24, 2026 | Dignity, Humor, Men, Sacred, Women, Worship
We rehabilitate men who have been chronically under-cherished. Welcome to the Sanctuary. We are a nonprofit organization, in the sense that nobody here is making any money, dedicated to the recovery and rehabilitation of men who have been chronically under-cherished....
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 17, 2026 | Love, Men, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Why the sweetest way to ask is the most powerful. Two Women, One Weekend Two women want the same weekend. Big Sur. Fog rolling in off the Pacific, a room with a fireplace, and absolutely nowhere to be on Saturday morning. The first woman has been thinking about it for...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 16, 2026 | Love, Marriage, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Saving marriages since 2005. One blow job at a time. On a lazy morning in early 2026, I did something that made me seriously question my own judgment. I paid the United States government $350 to file a federal trademark application for “Dr. Blow Job™.” Yes, you read...
