by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Apr 1, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Grief, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationship Counseling, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Sovereignty, Spirituality
How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit...
by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 30, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Passion, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Sovereignty, Spirituality
A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some; it’s for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single...
by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 29, 2026 | Complementary and Alternative Medicine, Happiness, Joy, Sexuality, Spirituality
If you’re going to walk up to the edge of life and look over into the precipice, you’d better know how to find your way back. Many of you know about my lifelong passion for fasting and have read my books and research. I’ve long credited fasting for all the flourishing...
by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 24, 2026 | Communication, Happiness, Sacred, Spirituality
Aggressive grace is spiritual warfare and the weapons are mercy and light. In a world that often feels increasingly fragmented, guarded, and transactional, the traditional concept of “grace” can sometimes feel inadequate—or at least, too quiet for the...
by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 19, 2026 | Emotions, Grief, Happiness, Joy, Love, Relationships, Sacred, Sovereignty, Spirituality
When I was 16, I spent a fall weekend on a Church retreat on the South Side of Chicago with about 30 other teenagers. We stayed at Hyde Park Union Church with pastors from our local Church. Late Friday night, several of us went out and walked around the Church’s...
by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 14, 2026 | Complementary and Alternative Medicine, Natural Remedies, Sacred, Spirituality
The New Science on Fasting For most of recorded human history, people fasted not because they understood the biology behind it, but because they discovered — through experience, through tradition, through the intimation of something ancient and reliable — that going...
