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Faithfulness & Loyalty: The Bedrock of Sacred Love

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Apr 4, 2026 | Communication, Couples Therapy, Emotions, Happiness, Love, Men, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

The Myth of the Wild Heart: Why being faithful is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Let me tell you something about desire: it isn’t wild because it’s unrestrained—it’s wild because it’s deep. I’ve spent my life studying love—the kind that cracks you open, the kind that...

The Love You’ve Been Too Afraid to Claim (And How to Finally Take It)

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 28, 2026 | Communication, Emotions, Eroticism, Happiness, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

You know you deserve. You know she wants you. The time is now. You know it’s there—that love. The kind that doesn’t just warm your heart but sets your soul on fire. The kind that doesn’t ask you to shrink, to hide, or to pretend, but instead sees all of you: your...

How to Let Yourself Be Cherished (Without Apology)

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 27, 2026 | Communication, Emotions, Happiness, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women

You deserve to be adored and valued for exactly who you are in this moment. You know how to love. You’ve spent a lifetime learning how to give it—how to show up, how to provide, how to protect, how to be the rock when the world feels shaky. You know how to be the...

Living an Erotic Life: The Art of Going All In

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 25, 2026 | Communication, Couples Therapy, Emotions, Eroticism, Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage Counseling, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality

A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a “Balls to the wall” life. The words erotic and eros are deeplply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of...

Practicing Aggressive Grace: The Holy Fool is Alive and Well

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 24, 2026 | Communication, Happiness, Sacred, Spirituality

Aggressive grace is spiritual warfare and the weapons are mercy and light. In a world that often feels increasingly fragmented, guarded, and transactional, the traditional concept of “grace” can sometimes feel inadequate—or at least, too quiet for the...

Are You Brave Enough for Great Love?

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 22, 2026 | Communication, Counseling, Couples Therapy, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage Counseling, Premarital Counseling, Relationships

Great love awaits those who are brave enough to reach for it and sweet enough to hold it. Love is often described as the most profound human experience—a force that can heal, transform, and connect us across barriers. Yet, many people question whether they are truly...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D., LMFT

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed to practice in California MFC47803. As a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher, she provides counseling and psychotherapy services online from her private practice in San Jose, California.  She has written books on mental health and alternative treatments, including Healing & Wholeness: Complementary and Alternative Therapies for Mental Health, Fasting: An Exceptional Human Experience, Complementary and Alternative Treatments for Anxiety, and Complementary and Alternative Treatments for Depression. She has conducted and published research on communication, relationships, and fasting in mental health.

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