by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 28, 2026 | Love, Relationships, Sacred
The Myth of the Wild Heart: Why being faithful is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Allow me to me tell you something about desire: It isn’t wild because it’s unrestrained—it’s wild because it’s deep. I’ve spent my life studying love—the kind that cracks you open, the kind...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 19, 2026 | Love, Men, Relationships
Heat and tenderness. Hunger and holding. Why every man deserves both. There is a type of love that most men have never had but have never stopped wanting. They don’t always have language for it. They may not have admitted it to anyone — perhaps not even to...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Mysticism, Passion, Sacred, Spirituality, Velvety Steel Balls
How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit for just...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 11, 2026 | Joy, Love, Mysticism, Sacred
Joy is arguably the most powerful force on the planet. Prologue: The Time Joy Ambushed Me in a Grocery Store Let me set the scene: I’m in Costco, a place where dreams go to die (or at least get bulk-bought and then forgotten in the back of a pantry). I’m pushing a...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 1, 2026 | Dignity, Eroticism, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Sacred, Worship
How to choose the right person and then worship the daylights out of each other Marriage is a peculiar proposition. You meet one person out of approximately eight billion people and eventually decide, Yes. You. You’re the one. I would like to sleep beside you, have...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 25, 2026 | Love, Marriage, Men
How a good man’s flaws, quirks, and glorious peculiarities become pure gold. I’m not married. Not yet. But lately, as I’ve been contemplating the arrival of my future husband, I’ve found myself looking forward to something that might strike...
