by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 21, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Women
compassionate look at what men are struggling with the — and why I’d rather date a FedEx driver with a good heart. There is a quiet revolution happening in the modern landscape, and it isn’t being televised. It is being felt in the silence of unreturned texts, the...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 9, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women, Worship
Why men deserve to be seen, valued, and cherished. Picture this: It’s 2026, and men are disappearing from the dating scene faster than avocado toast from a millennial’s budget. According to Pew Research, 63% of men under 30 are now single, compared to just 34% of...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 26, 2026 | Men, Sexuality, Women
Because it’s all good. It began, as most magnificent disasters do, on an unremarkable Tuesday. He was standing at the kitchen counter in his boxers, eating cold lasagna straight out of the Pyrex, frowning at the crossword. He scratched his ribs. He chewed. He...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 19, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Women
Why your humanity is not something you must earn, and your dignity is not something you can lose There is something profoundly wrong with the idea that a human being must earn the right to be considered worthy. And yet, in countless subtle and not-so-subtle ways, that...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 19, 2026 | Men, Sexuality, Velvety Steel Balls, Women
Higher education. Lower expectations of clothing. An Institution Whose Time Has Come I’ve spent decades studying human behavior, psychology, relationships, intimacy, and the extraordinary complexity of human love. I’ve earned a Ph.D. in psychology, conducted research,...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 18, 2026 | Love, Men, Women
Yes, he really was thinking about nothing. It’s dusk. The two of them are sitting on the back porch. The sky is going pink over the neighbor’s roof, the crickets are tuning up, and he’s leaning back in his chair with his ankles crossed, gazing out at the yard with an...