by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 28, 2026 | Love, Relationships, Sacred
The Myth of the Wild Heart: Why being faithful is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Allow me to me tell you something about desire: It isn’t wild because it’s unrestrained—it’s wild because it’s deep. I’ve spent my life studying love—the kind that cracks you open, the kind...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality, Velvety Steel Balls, Women
How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit for just...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 11, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred
Joy is arguably the most powerful force on the planet. Prologue: The Time Joy Ambushed Me in a Grocery Store Let me set the scene: I’m in Costco, a place where dreams go to die (or at least get bulk-bought and then forgotten in the back of a pantry). I’m pushing a...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 1, 2026 | Dignity, Eroticism, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Sacred, Worship
How to choose the right person and then worship the daylights out of each other Marriage is a peculiar proposition. You meet one person out of approximately eight billion people and eventually decide, Yes. You. You’re the one. I would like to sleep beside you, have...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 15, 2026 | Sacred, Spirituality, Velvety Steel Balls
A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some, it’s for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 9, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women, Worship
Why men deserve to be seen, valued, and cherished. Picture this: It’s 2026, and men are disappearing from the dating scene faster than avocado toast from a millennial’s budget. According to Pew Research, 63% of men under 30 are now single, compared to just 34% of...
