by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 18, 2026 | Humor, Men
In defense of the terrible pun as an act of devotion. It’s Sunday morning. He’s standing at the stove in a faded apron that says Kiss the Cook, flipping pancakes with the solemn concentration of a surgeon. His fifteen-year-old daughter shuffles into the kitchen in...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 18, 2026 | Humor, Men, Women
Pleats, pipes, and the holy gust of wind. It’s a bright Saturday morning on a Highland Games field. The grass is still damp. Somewhere behind the beer tent, a set of bagpipes is warming up with a sound like a goose being gently reasoned with. The smell of meat pies is...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 25, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Velvety Steel Balls
A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a “balls to the wall” life. The words erotic and eros are deeply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 24, 2026 | Dignity, Humor, Men, Sacred, Women, Worship
We rehabilitate men who have been chronically under-cherished. Welcome to the Sanctuary. We are a nonprofit organization, in the sense that nobody here is making any money, dedicated to the recovery and rehabilitation of men who have been chronically under-cherished....
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 22, 2026 | Humor, Relationships
Great love awaits those who are brave enough to reach for it and sweet enough to hold it. Love is often described as the most profound human experience—a force that can heal, transform, and connect us across barriers. Yet, many people question whether they are truly...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Relationships
Creating over-the-top fun in your love life that’s so good your neighbors will be jealous and your kids will cringe. I have a question for you. Several, actually. For starters, if you’re in a relationship, how exciting is it? And if your partner is an unhinged,...
