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The Psychological and Relational Significance of Oral Sex for Men

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 31, 2026 | Eroticism, Men, Relationships, Sexuality

What every man hopes for — An honest and fearless look at intimacy’s most personal gift. In the lush and complex landscape of modern romantic relationships, physical intimacy often serves as the barometer of the emotional health of the relationship. While sexual...

The Love Men Crave — But Rarely Find

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 19, 2026 | Love, Men, Relationships

Heat and tenderness. Hunger and holding. Why every man deserves both. There is a type of love that most men have never had but have never stopped wanting. They don’t always have language for it. They may not have admitted it to anyone — perhaps not even to...

The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality, Velvety Steel Balls, Women

How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit for just...

The Male Dating Strike: Why Men Are Opting Out — and What Women Are Missing

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 21, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Women

A compassionate look at what men are struggling with the — and why I’d rather date a FedEx driver with a good heart. There is a quiet revolution happening in the modern landscape, and it isn’t being televised. It is being felt in the silence of unreturned texts, the...

Magnificent Men: How Men Are Undervalued and Why They Should Be Worshipped

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 9, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women, Worship

Why men deserve to be seen, valued, and cherished. Picture this: It’s 2026, and men are disappearing from the dating scene faster than avocado toast from a millennial’s budget. According to Pew Research, 63% of men under 30 are now single, compared to just 34% of...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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