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Magnificent Marriage: The Hot and Holy Marriage Every Magnificent Man Deserves

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 1, 2026 | Dignity, Eroticism, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Sacred, Worship

How to choose the right person and then worship the daylights out of each other Marriage is a peculiar proposition. You meet one person out of approximately eight billion people and eventually decide, Yes. You. You’re the one. I would like to sleep beside you, have...

The Physiology of Ecstasy: Where Science, Sex & The Sacred Meet

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 26, 2026 | Marriage, Relationships, Sexuality

What your body is actually doing when it loses its mind — and why your nervous system deserves a standing ovation. Your body knows things your brain hasn’t admitted yet. Long before consciousness catches up with its own experience, your nervous system is already...

Living an Erotic Life: The Art of Going All In

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 25, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality

A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a “balls to the wall” life. The words erotic and eros are deeply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of...

Why People Fall in Love with Psychopaths: A Psychological and Forensic Analysis

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Feb 20, 2026 | Communication, Love, Marriage, Relationships

Love is often described as mysterious, unpredictable, and irrational. But few forms of attraction puzzle psychologists, clinicians, and laypeople alike as much as the phenomenon of falling in love with a psychopath. How can highly intelligent, manipulative, and often...

Dangerous Men: Why “High IQ” Doesn’t Equal “High Safety”

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Feb 13, 2026 | Communication, Marriage, Relationships

Intelligence has long been revered in society as a marker of success, competence, and problem-solving ability. High IQ individuals are often assumed to possess not only cognitive superiority but also wisdom, morality, and sound judgment. Yet, history and psychological...

What Type of Therapist Do You Need? A Guide to Specialties and Modalities

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Aug 1, 2025 | Marriage

With mental health awareness on the rise, more people than ever are seeking therapy—and that’s a good thing. But when it comes to choosing a therapist, the options can be overwhelming. From psychologists and counselors to clinical social workers and marriage and...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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