The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
Dancing on the Edge: A Cautionary Tale About Spiritual Discipline
If you’re going to walk up to the edge of life and look over into the precipice, you’d better know how to find your way back. Many of you know about my lifelong passion for fasting and have read my books and research. I’ve long credited fasting for all the flourishing...
Why Strong Men Crave to Be Held (And How to Let Yourself)
Men’s hidden tenderness and unspoken longings may be the most erotic things on the planet. You were built to be unshakable—to stand firm in the storm, to carry the weight, to be the rock when everyone else is falling apart. You’ve spent a lifetime proving you don’t...
The Love You’ve Been Too Afraid to Claim (And How to Finally Take It)
You know you deserve. You know she wants you. The time is now. You know it’s there—that love. The kind that doesn’t just warm your heart but sets your soul on fire. The kind that doesn’t ask you to shrink, to hide, or to pretend, but instead sees all of you: your...
Why Attraction Sometimes Betrays Us: Why Intelligent, Loving People Repeatedly Choose Relationships That Hurt Them
Understanding why we want what we want — and what it costs us when we don't examine it. She sat across from me in my office — intelligent, self-aware, professionally accomplished, genuinely kind. She had spent fifteen years dating. She had read the books, done the...
The Traps, Pitfalls, and Downfalls of Modern Intimacy
Why the pursuit of love has never been more sophisticated — or more prone to failure. We have never had more information about relationships. More books, more podcasts, more therapeutic frameworks, more attachment theory explainers, more dating apps algorithmically...
