The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
Why Attraction Sometimes Betrays Us: Why Intelligent, Loving People Repeatedly Choose Relationships That Hurt Them
Understanding why we want what we want — and what it costs us when we don't examine it. She sat across from me in my office — intelligent, self-aware, professionally accomplished, genuinely kind. She had spent fifteen years dating. She had read the books, done the...
Let Him Know You Want Him: The Power of Choosing a Man
Why making your desire unmistakable can change everything. The Man at the Grill It is a Saturday in late August, and there's a man at the grill. He didn’t volunteer for the grill so much as drift toward it, the way certain men drift toward any job that gives their...
The Traps, Pitfalls, and Downfalls of Modern Intimacy
Why the pursuit of love has never been more sophisticated — or more prone to failure. We have never had more information about relationships. More books, more podcasts, more therapeutic frameworks, more attachment theory explainers, more dating apps algorithmically...
The Physiology of Ecstasy: Where Science, Sex & The Sacred Meet
What your body is actually doing when it loses its mind — and why your nervous system deserves a standing ovation. Your body knows things your brain hasn't admitted yet. Long before consciousness catches up with its own experience, your nervous system is already six...
The Well-Loved Man: What Happens When a Man Finally Feels Safe
This is what healing looks like when it actually works. Everything written in this book up to this point has been, in one way or another, about the wound. About what was taken and when and how. About the armor that formed around the taking, and the cost of carrying...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
