The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The Difference Between Finding Love And Building Love: Why The Drywall Is Still Not Finished
If you play your cards right that dry wall may never be done. The Great Relationship Myth We have been given a magnificent, maddening lie. It arrives gift-wrapped in fairy tales, sealed in the amber of romantic comedies, and sung to us by artists who have convinced us...
Mystic Psychotherapy: When Psychotherapists are Mystics
What it's like to have a therapist who has vision into unseen realms. Modern psychotherapy presents itself as a scientific and clinical discipline—grounded in diagnosis, evidence-based modalities, and professional ethics. Yet beneath the language of manuals, outcomes...
A Tribute to Jesse Jackson
When I was 16, I spent a fall weekend on a Church retreat on the South Side of Chicago with about 30 other teenagers. We stayed at Hyde Park Union Church with pastors from our local Church. Late Friday night, several of us went out and walked around the Church’s...
Try a Little Tenderness: The Sweetness of Softness
The gentle revolution of a soft heart in a hard world. We live in a world that glorifies the hard charge. The hustle. The grind. The relentless pursuit of more—more success, more intensity, more fire. We’re taught to push through, to power up, to never let them see us...
Discipline and Surrender: The Balance of Strength and Softness
It's all about the explosive release after the discipline ends. Love is not about losing control. It is about choosing—every single day—to trust instead of grip, to listen instead of lecture, to hold instead of fix. It’s the art of knowing when to stand firm, and when...
