The Velvet Portal to the Erotic Four: The Gateway to Divine Ecstasy
The sacred gateway to love, life, and relationship. There exists a place so sacred, so powerful, and so profoundly misunderstood that humanity has spent millennia both worshipping and fearing it. This is the vagina—the Velvet Portal, the Sacred Heart of Life, you...
The Fifth Phallic Leg of The Erotic Four: The Sacred Scepter of the Soul
Because the divine masculine deserves a standing ovation – schwing! In the grand tapestry of human existence, there are few subjects as simultaneously revered and ridiculed, celebrated and shamed, as the male penis. It is the original wand of creation, the divine...
The Erotic Four and the Alchemy of Healing: How My 1993 Study on Communication Apprehension Predicted a Revolution in Love
Creating a shift from surviving to thriving, marked as happy, joyous, and free. In 1993, I sat in a quiet room at Santa Clara University, staring at the results of my study on communication apprehension among adult children of alcoholics. The data was clear: people...
Open Your Mind to Receive
What a magnificent web we weave when we practice to receive. I want to tell you about the moment I told a stranger to “Have a beautiful life.” That exchange was complete in a way that the original exchange had not quite been. The blessing offered and the blessing...
Moving Toward What Matters: Building an Extraordinary Life
The difference between an ordinary life and an extraordinary one is rarely talent. It is almost always courage. There is a moment that recurs throughout human life — not once, but repeatedly, across the decades of a lived existence — in which a person stands at a...


