The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
Why I Use the Word Worship — And Why It Makes People Nervous
Because some kinds of love are too big for smaller words. The Flinch It happens at dinner parties. It happens at the dentist. It happened once in the checkout line at Costco, which is not where I expected to discuss the theology of desire, but there we were, between...
How to Identify a Strong Man: What Real Masculine Strength Actually Looks Like
What women often mistake for strength — and what real masculine strength actually feels like in your body. Let us begin with the uncomfortable truth that most conversations about masculine strength carefully avoid: women are frequently terrible at identifying it. Not...
Living an Erotic Life: The Art of Going All In
A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a "balls to the wall" life. The words erotic and eros are deeply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of desire and...
Magnificent Men Rescue & Sanctuary
We rehabilitate men who have been chronically under-cherished. Welcome to the Sanctuary. We are a nonprofit organization, in the sense that nobody here is making any money, dedicated to the recovery and rehabilitation of men who have been chronically under-cherished....
Your Hunger for Her Isn’t Weakness — It’s Sacred
The woman who fears your hunger is not the one you’re here for. You’ve been told your whole life that wanting her—really wanting her, with a fire that burns through your veins and a longing that aches in your bones—is something to be controlled, minimized, or even...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
