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The Forbidden Thrill: How to Turn Public Spaces Into Your Private Playground

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Unlocking the exhilaration of high-stakes play in the middle of everyday life. There’s something electric about the idea of being caught, something intoxicating about the risk of someone seeing what they shouldn’t, about the thrill of knowing that at any...

Hitting on That Hot Guy: How Fortune Rewards the Brave

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women

A guide to swooping in, stealing his heart, and leaving him begging for more. Have you ever seen a man so attractive you immediately talked yourself out of approaching him? Most women have. We notice him from across the room, imagine all the reasons he would not be...

A Return to Love: The Soul’s Right to Dignity

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 9, 2026 | Men, Sacred, Spirituality, Women

How somatic psychology and kinesthetic intelligence can change you. Most people who want to be loved already know they want to be loved. They understand it intellectually. They can articulate the desire, recognize it in themselves, even name the specific ways they...

The Sacred Ache: A Woman’s Return to Grace

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 9, 2026 | Fasting, Sacred, Spirituality, Women

The power of a woman’s hunger. Note: Before reading this chapter, please read A Return to Love: The Soul’s Right to Dignity. It provides important context that will help you get the most from what follows. Let’s Begin Most women who long to be loved and...

The Discipline of Desire: A Man’s Return to Worth

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 9, 2026 | Fasting, Men, Sacred, Spirituality

Worth is not just about the ability to endure; it is about the capacity to be cherished. Note: Before reading this chapter, please read A Return to Love: The Soul’s Right to Dignity. It provides important context that will help you get the most from what follows....
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher specializing in communication, human connection, and relationship dynamics. For more than three decades, she has developed innovative therapeutic approaches integrating psychology, emotional resilience, and meaningful personal change. She is the author of multiple books and research on relationships, mental health, and complementary and alternative approaches to healing.

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