The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
Fuck Like It’s the 1970s: How to Become Your Partner’s Favorite Adventure
The greatest sexual revolution begins tonight at 8:00pm in your bedroom. Congratulations. The 1970s weren't magical because people fucked a gazillion strangers. They were magical because people still believed sex could be playful, adventurous, uninhibited, and...
Mercy, Grace and Compassion: The Road to Magnificence
Magnificent people always attempt to extend compassion, mercy, and grace. We all admire mercy, grace, and compassion. Few of us can clearly distinguish among them, and fewer still know which one a difficult moment actually requires. Yet much of what determines the...
Intercession: Being an Instrument of Love
Why magnificent people intercede with mercy and love. There is a woman I know who drives forty-five minutes each way, twice a week, to sit with her aging mother. Her mother doesn't always recognize her anymore. She goes anyway. She brings her mother's favorite...
Hidden in Plain Sight: The Magnificence We Miss In Others
The greatest tragedy is not that magnificence is rare but we often fail to notice it until it is gone. I want to tell you about an average Tuesday when I took my tri-weekly adventure to Whole Foods. I was dancing at the meat counter to the Madonna they were blasting...
Why The Flaws Of A Good Man Become Precious
Cherishing the perfection in his imperfections. The Thing I Look Forward to Most I spend a fair amount of time thinking about my future husband. It's the kind of thing you do when you know he's coming and you're writing a book series about cherishing men. I think...
