The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit for just...
The Velvety Steel Balls Training Manual
Go raise a little hell ... and a whole lot of love. A Word from the Instructor: Welcome, recruit. You’ve made it this far, which means one of two things: Either you’re a glutton for punishment, or you’ve finally realized that it's time to step forward and claim your...
The Male Dating Strike: Why Men Are Opting Out—and What Women Are Missing
A compassionate look at what men are struggling with the — and why I’d rather date a FedEx driver with a good heart. There is a quiet revolution happening in the modern landscape, and it isn’t being televised. It is being felt in the silence of unreturned texts, the...
Have a Beautiful Life!
A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some, it's for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single time....
Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist
Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...
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— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
