by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 18, 2026 | Men, Sexuality, Women
How admiration, reverence, and desire transform her body into a covenant. There’s something extraordinary about being looked at by the person you love and realizing there is nothing about your body they are merely tolerating. They delight in you. They want to look at...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 18, 2026 | Men, Sexuality, Women
A hunger that’s for more than sex — it’s a hunger for her. Every women in love wants to be desired by her beloved. But there’s a profound, night-and-day difference between a woman knowing that a man wants sex and knowing that he hungers specifically...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 17, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred, Sexuality, Women
Because desire is the body’s way of saying thank you. It’s a Tuesday. Nothing about it is special. She is standing at the kitchen counter in yesterday’s sweatshirt, waiting for the coffee to finish, and he is up on the step stool, fighting a cabinet hinge that has...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 17, 2026 | Men, Relationships, Sexuality
It’s all about the explosive release after the discipline ends. Love is not about losing control. It is about choosing—every single day—to trust instead of grip, to listen instead of lecture, to hold instead of fix. It’s the art of knowing when to stand firm,...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 17, 2026 | Love, Men, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Why the sweetest way to ask is the most powerful. Two Women, One Weekend Two women want the same weekend. Big Sur. Fog rolling in off the Pacific, a room with a fireplace, and absolutely nowhere to be on Saturday morning. The first woman has been thinking about it for...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 16, 2026 | Love, Marriage, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Saving marriages since 2005. One blow job at a time. On October 16, 2026, I did something that made me seriously question my own judgment. I paid the United States government $350 to file a federal trademark application for “Dr. Blow Job™.” Yes, you read that...
