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Taking the Lead: The Power of Dominance

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

The power of taking control: how to dominate him in a way that drives him wild. There’s a secret most women never learn, a truth that can transform the way a man looks at you, the way he craves you, the way he surrenders to you completely. And it’s this:...

The Forbidden Thrill: How to Turn Public Spaces Into Your Private Playground

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Unlocking the exhilaration of high-stakes play in the middle of everyday life. There’s something electric about the idea of being caught, something intoxicating about the risk of someone seeing what they shouldn’t, about the thrill of knowing that at any...

Hitting on That Hot Guy: How Fortune Rewards the Brave

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women

A guide to swooping in, stealing his heart, and leaving him begging for more. Have you ever seen a man so attractive you immediately talked yourself out of approaching him? Most women have. We notice him from across the room, imagine all the reasons he would not be...

A Return to Love: The Soul’s Right to Dignity

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 9, 2026 | Men, Sacred, Spirituality, Women

How somatic psychology and kinesthetic intelligence can change you. Most people who want to be loved already know they want to be loved. They understand it intellectually. They can articulate the desire, recognize it in themselves, even name the specific ways they...

The Discipline of Desire: A Man’s Return to Worth

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 9, 2026 | Fasting, Men, Sacred, Spirituality

Worth is not just about the ability to endure; it is about the capacity to be cherished. Before reading this chapter, please read A Return to Love: The Soul’s Right to Dignity. It provides important context that will help you get the most from what follows. And while...

Male Masturbation: The Secret World of Men, Their Hunger and Their Fantasies

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Men, Sexuality

The secret almost every man shares. There is a quiet, almost sacred ritual that unfolds in the private spaces of men’s lives. It happens behind closed doors, in the early hours of the morning, or in the stolen moments of solitude when no one is watching. It is an act...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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