by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 15, 2026 | Passion, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality
A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some, it’s for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 9, 2026 | Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality
Why men deserve to be seen, valued, and cherished. Picture this: It’s 2026, and men are disappearing from the dating scene faster than avocado toast from a millennial’s budget. According to Pew Research, 63% of men under 30 are now single, compared to just 34% of...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Happiness, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality
Men’s hidden tenderness and unspoken longings may be the most erotic things on the planet. You were built to be unshakable—to stand firm in the storm, to carry the weight, to be the rock when everyone else is falling apart. You’ve spent a lifetime proving you don’t...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 28, 2026 | Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Women
You know you deserve. You know she wants you. The time is now. You know it’s there—that love. The kind that doesn’t just warm your heart but sets your soul on fire. The kind that doesn’t ask you to shrink, to hide, or to pretend, but instead sees all of you: your...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 25, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality
A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a “balls to the wall” life. The words erotic and eros are deeply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 24, 2026 | Communication, Happiness, Sacred, Spirituality
Aggressive grace is spiritual warfare and the weapons are mercy, light and love. In a world that often feels increasingly fragmented, guarded, and transactional, the traditional concept of “grace” can sometimes feel inadequate—or at least, too quiet for...
