by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 12, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Sacred
Joy is arguably the most powerful force on the planet. Prologue: The Time Joy Ambushed Me in a Grocery Store Let me set the scene: I’m in Costco, a place where dreams go to die (or at least get bulk-bought and then forgotten in the back of a pantry). I’m pushing a...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 12, 2026 | Love, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women
The art of sensory deprivation: How to blindfold him—and blow his mind. There’s a moment, just after you slip the blindfold over his eyes, when the entire dynamic between you shifts. Suddenly, he’s not just with you—he’s yours. Not because you’ve forced him, but...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Men, Sacred, Spirituality, Women
Give another human being the gift of helping them to see their beauty. There is a man at customer service at my local Whole Foods. He has worked there long enough that I know him, and one afternoon I was standing at the counter watching him work and I noticed...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Sexuality, Women
The secret world many women never discuss. There exists a quiet, deeply personal world that many women inhabit alone, a world that is rarely spoken of, even among the closest of friends. It is a world of solitude, of touch, of rhythm, of breath, and of imagination....
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Men, Sexuality
The secret almost every man shares. There is a quiet, almost sacred ritual that unfolds in the private spaces of men’s lives. It happens behind closed doors, in the early hours of the morning, or in the stolen moments of solitude when no one is watching. It is an act...
