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The Discipline of Desire: A Man’s Return to Worth

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 9, 2026 | Fasting, Men, Sacred, Spirituality

Worth is not just about the ability to endure; it is about the capacity to be cherished. Note: Before reading this chapter, please read A Return to Love: The Soul’s Right to Dignity. It provides important context that will help you get the most from what follows. Most...

Fuck Like It’s the 1970s: How to Become Your Partner’s Favorite Adventure

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 5, 2026 | Joy, Passion, Sexuality

The greatest sexual revolution begins tonight at 8:00pm in your bedroom. Congratulations. The 1970s weren’t magical because people fucked a gazillion strangers. They were magical because people still believed sex could be playful, adventurous, uninhibited, and...

Mercy, Grace and Compassion: The Road to Magnificence

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 4, 2026 | Love, Sacred, Spirituality

Magnificent people always attempt to extend compassion, mercy, and grace. Three Words We Think We Understand Mercy. Grace. Compassion. We use these words the way we use “love” — reverently, often, and almost never precisely. They show up in eulogies and...

Intercession: Being an Instrument of Love

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Love, Sacred

Why magnificent people intercede with mercy and love. There is a woman I know who drives forty-five minutes each way, twice a week, to sit with her aging mother. Her mother doesn’t always recognize her anymore. She goes anyway. She brings her mother’s...

Hidden in Plain Sight: The Magnificence We Miss In Others

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred, Spirituality

The greatest tragedy is not that magnificence is rare but we often fail to notice it until it is gone. I want to tell you about an average Tuesday when I took my tri-weekly adventure to Whole Foods. I was dancing at the meat counter to the Madonna they were blasting...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher specializing in communication, human connection, and relationship dynamics. For more than three decades, she has developed innovative therapeutic approaches integrating psychology, emotional resilience, and meaningful personal change. She is the author of multiple books and research on relationships, mental health, and complementary and alternative approaches to healing.

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