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Living an Erotic Life: The Art of Going All In

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 25, 2026 | Communication, Couples Therapy, Emotions, Eroticism, Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage Counseling, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality

A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a “Balls to the wall” life. The words erotic and eros are deeplply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of...

Practicing Aggressive Grace: The Holy Fool is Alive and Well

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 24, 2026 | Communication, Happiness, Sacred, Spirituality

Aggressive grace is spiritual warfare and the weapons are mercy and light. In a world that often feels increasingly fragmented, guarded, and transactional, the traditional concept of “grace” can sometimes feel inadequate—or at least, too quiet for the...

Your Hunger for Her Isn’t Weakness—It’s Sacred

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 23, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Happiness, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Women

The woman who fears your hunger is not the one you’re here for. You’ve been told your whole life that wanting her—really wanting her, with a fire that burns through your veins and a longing that aches in your bones—is something to be controlled, minimized, or even...

Are You Brave Enough for Great Love?

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 22, 2026 | Communication, Counseling, Couples Therapy, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage Counseling, Premarital Counseling, Relationships

Great love awaits those who are brave enough to reach for it and sweet enough to hold it. Love is often described as the most profound human experience—a force that can heal, transform, and connect us across barriers. Yet, many people question whether they are truly...

The 4 Most Dangerous Behaviors in Your Relationship

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 21, 2026 | Communication, Couples Therapy, Emotions, Happiness, Relationships

Master these insights and deepen trust, passion and connection. Most relationships don’t end because of a single blowout fight or betrayal. They die a slower, quieter death—eroded by habits that chip away at trust, respect, and intimacy over time. After decades of...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D., LMFT

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed to practice in California MFC47803, Arizona LMFT-15655, and Florida MT4366. As a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher, she provides counseling and psychotherapy services online from her private practice in San Jose, California.

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