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Magnificent Men: How Men Are Undervalued and Why They Should Be Worshipped

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 9, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women, Worship

Why men deserve to be seen, valued, and cherished. Picture this: It’s 2026, and men are disappearing from the dating scene faster than avocado toast from a millennial’s budget. According to Pew Research, 63% of men under 30 are now single, compared to just 34% of...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...

Dancing on the Edge: A Cautionary Tale About Spiritual Discipline

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Sacred, Spirituality

If you’re going to walk up to the edge of life and look over into the precipice, you’d better know how to find your way back. Many of you know about my lifelong passion for fasting and have read my books and research. I’ve long credited fasting for all the...

Why Strong Men Crave to Be Held (And How to Let Yourself)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality

Men’s hidden tenderness and unspoken longings may be the most erotic things on the planet. You were built to be unshakable—to stand firm in the storm, to carry the weight, to be the rock when everyone else is falling apart. You’ve spent a lifetime proving you don’t...

Adult Children of Alcoholics and the Erotic Four

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Communication, Eroticism, Relationships

Healing dysfunctional communication patterns and finding divine love. Every relationship expert will tell you that communication is the keystone of a healthy relationship. For me, this hasn’t just been a clinical observation; it’s been a lifelong pursuit of...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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