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The Five Steps of Worship in Your Relationship: The Fifth Step is Worshipping

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 9, 2026 | Love, Worship

I choose you every day. What Does It Mean to Worship Someone You Love? Every morning for forty-one years, Walter has said the same thing when June walks into the kitchen. “Morning, beautiful.” And every morning for forty-one years, June has said the same...

The Five Steps of Worship in Your Relationship: The Fourth Step is Revering

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 9, 2026 | Love, Worship

Revering: Love Sanctified. I hold you as sacred. What Does It Mean to Hold Another Human Being as Sacred? Rachel is standing at the kitchen island, holding a letter from the bank, and she is angrier than she has been in years. For the third time, Sam forgot to call...

The Five Steps of Worship in Your Relationship: The Third Step is Cherishing

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 9, 2026 | Love, Worship

Cherishing: Love Treasured. I adore you. The Extraordinary Experience of Feeling Treasured Tom is forty-six, six foot two, and has a head cold that he is handling with the quiet heroism of a man who believes he is dying. He is on the couch under a blanket that is...

The Five Steps of Worship in Your Relationship: The Second Step is Admiring

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 9, 2026 | Love, Worship

Admiring: Love Appreciated. I celebrate you. The hunger to be admired by someone you love. Admiring: Love Appreciated At a retirement party in a rented banquet hall, a man named Dan stands near the dessert table holding a plate of cake he has no intention of eating....

The Five Steps of Worship in Your Relationship: The First Step is Seeing

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 9, 2026 | Love, Worship

Seeing: Love Witnessed, I see you. The Loneliness of Being Invisible to Someone Who Loves You At 6:40 on a Tuesday, Mark pulls into the driveway and turns off the engine. He doesn’t get out. He sits with both hands on the wheel for eleven minutes, watching the...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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