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Why I Believe Men Are Undervalued — And Why It Pisses People Off

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 5, 2026 | Dignity, Love, Men, Uncategorized

I’m not going to soften this. In fact, I think I’ll say it louder. My doctor, whom I’ll call Jim, warned me recently that some people aren’t going to like the title of my new book: Magnificent Men™: How Men Are Undervalued and How Worshipping and Being Worshipped Can...

My So-Called Life as a Contractor, Designer and Artist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 1, 2026 | Joy, Relationships, Sacred

How I developed an unusual relationship with plastic and the Arts & Crafts Movement From 1989 to 2003, I was president and co-owner of Willow Glen Kitchen & Bath in San Jose, California, where I worked as a general contractor and one of the two principal...

The Night 32 FedEx Trucks Came to My House

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 1, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love

I said I’d rather date a FedEx driver. In my dream, thirty-two of them showed up. I. The Police Are at the Door I had the dream again. It’s a Tuesday afternoon, about three months after Magnificent Men™: How Men Are Undervalued and How Worshipping and Being...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...

Dancing on the Edge: A Cautionary Tale About Spiritual Discipline

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Complementary & Alternative Medicine, Fasting, Mysticism, Sacred, Spirituality, Velvety Steel Balls

If you’re going to walk up to the edge of life and look over into the precipice, you’d better know how to find your way back. Many of you know about my lifelong passion for fasting and have read my books and research. I’ve long credited fasting for all the...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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