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The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 1, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Grief, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality

How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones.   Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit...

A Tribute to Jesse Jackson

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 19, 2026 | Emotions, Grief, Happiness, Joy, Love, Relationships, Sacred, Spirituality

When I was 16, I spent a fall weekend on a Church retreat on the South Side of Chicago with about 30 other teenagers. We stayed at Hyde Park Union Church with pastors from our local Church.  Late Friday night, several of us went out and walked around the Church’s...

Helping Kids Cope with Divorce: What MFTs Want Parents to Know

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jun 29, 2025 | Child Development, Communication, Counseling, Emotions, Family Therapy, Grief, Psychological Development, Relationships

Divorce is one of the most difficult life transitions a family can face, especially when children are involved. While adults grapple with the emotional, financial, and logistical complexities of separation, children often experience confusion, fear, sadness, and even...

Developing Resilient While Grieving

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Sep 16, 2024 | Anxiety Treatment, Counseling, Depression, Emotions, Grief, Psychotherapy

When it’s at its worse, grief can feel like you’re stuck in quicksand. When you’re grieving a loss, such as the death of a loved one, the pain can seem unbearable, and you may feel like you will never move on. However, with time, patience, and support, you can...

Uncovering the Causes of Depression in Older Adults

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jun 13, 2024 | Counseling, Dementia, Depression, Grief, Happiness, Nutrition, Psychotherapy, Sleep, Stress Management

If you or someone you’re closed to has experienced depression, then you already known that it’s a serious mood disorder. It affects the way a person feels, acts, and thinks. Although depression is common among older adults, clinical depression is not considered a...

Complicated Grief: What It Is and Why You Don’t Want It

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Feb 16, 2024 | Anxiety Treatment, Counseling, Depression, Emotions, Grief, Psychotherapy | 0 comments

Bereavement is a period of time spent adjusting to a profound loss. During this time, a bereaved person may experience varying levels of grief manifesting in feelings of numbness, shock, sadness, and yearning for the person or pet who has passed. For most people, it’s...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher specializing in communication, human connection, and relationship dynamics. For more than three decades, she has developed innovative therapeutic approaches integrating psychology, emotional resilience, and meaningful personal change. She is the author of multiple books and research on relationships, mental health, and complementary and alternative approaches to healing.

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