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Turn Your Relationship Into a Sitcom So Funny You’ll Pee a Little

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Relationships

Creating over-the-top fun in your love life that’s so good your neighbors will be jealous and your kids will cringe. I have a question for you. Several, actually. For starters, if you’re in a relationship, how exciting is it? And if your partner is an unhinged,...

How Playful Teasing Can Create Powerful Attraction

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Eroticism, Happiness, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

How to drive him wild without even touching him. There’s something exquisitely cruel in the way desire can build when you’re not together, in the way a single message or a whispered voice note can consume his thoughts for hours, in the way the knowledge...

Taking the Lead: The Power of Dominance

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

The power of taking control: how to dominate him in a way that drives him wild. There’s a secret most women never learn, a truth that can transform the way a man looks at you, the way he craves you, the way he surrenders to you completely. And it’s this:...

Hitting on That Hot Guy: How Fortune Rewards the Brave

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women

A guide to swooping in, stealing his heart, and leaving him begging for more. Have you ever seen a man so attractive you immediately talked yourself out of approaching him? Most women have. We notice him from across the room, imagine all the reasons he would not be...

Hidden in Plain Sight: The Magnificence We Miss In Others

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred, Spirituality

The greatest tragedy is not that magnificence is rare but we often fail to notice it until it is gone. I want to tell you about an average Tuesday when I took my tri-weekly adventure to Whole Foods. I was dancing at the meat counter to the Madonna they were blasting...

The Weekend I Discovered How Kind People Can Be

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Feb 18, 2026 | Joy, Love, Relationships, Sacred, Spirituality

The unexpected encounters with love and humanity that changed my life. When I was 16, I spent a fall weekend on a Church retreat on the South Side of Chicago with about 30 other teenagers. We stayed at Hyde Park Union Church with pastors from our local Church. We...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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