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Unleashing the Wild: How to Drive Him Feral

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 11, 2026 | Joy, Love, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Release the beast by unleashing him. There’s a moment—that split second when your fingers tangle in his hair and yank his head back, when your teeth sink into the tender flesh of his shoulder, when your nails dig into his skin just hard enough to leave a mark—when...

How to Turn Your Relationship Into a Sitcom (Minus the Laugh Track and Divorce Lawyers)

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 11, 2026 | Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Relationships

Creating over-the-top fun in your love life that’s so good your neighbors will be jealous and your kids will cringe. Buckle up, you tragic romantics, because your relationship isn’t just boring—it’s so painfully predictable, Hallmark could use it as a template for...

The Art of the Long-Distance Tease

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 10, 2026 | Eroticism, Happiness, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

How to drive him wild without even touching him. There’s something exquisitely cruel in the way desire can build when you’re not together, in the way a single message or a whispered voice note can consume his thoughts for hours, in the way the knowledge that he can’t...

Taking the Lead: The Power of Dominance

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 10, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

The power of taking control: how to dominate him in a way that drives him wild. There’s a secret most women never learn, a truth that can transform the way a man looks at you, the way he craves you, the way he surrenders to you completely. And it’s this: the hottest...

Hitting on That Hot Guy: How Fortune Rewards the Brave

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women

A guide to swooping in, stealing his heart, and leaving him begging for more. Let’s get one thing straight—or gay, or bi, or whatever floats your boat—because desire doesn’t discriminate, and neither does this article. You’ve seen him. That guy. He may not be for...

Are Kind People Happier?

by San Jose Counseling Therapist | Nov 15, 2024 | Anxiety Treatment, Communication, Depression, Happiness, Joy, Psychotherapy

The Science of Being Kind — And Why It Feels So Extraordinary The answer is yes. Unequivocally, neurochemically, soulfully yes. And if you have ever experienced the particular warmth that spreads through your chest when you do something genuinely good for another...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D., LMFT

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed to practice in California MFC47803, Arizona LMFT-15655, and Florida MT4366. As a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher, she provides counseling and psychotherapy services online from her private practice in San Jose, California.

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