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Intercession: Being an Instrument of Love

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Love, Sacred

Why magnificent people intercede with mercy and love. There is a woman I know who drives forty-five minutes each way, twice a week, to sit with her aging mother. Her mother doesn’t always recognize her anymore. She goes anyway. She brings her mother’s...

Hidden in Plain Sight: The Magnificence We Miss In Others

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred, Spirituality

The greatest tragedy is not that magnificence is rare but we often fail to notice it until it is gone. I want to tell you about an average Tuesday when I took my tri-weekly adventure to Whole Foods. I was dancing at the meat counter to the Madonna they were blasting...

Why The Flaws Of A Good Man Become Precious

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred, Women

Cherishing the perfection in his imperfections. The Thing I Look Forward to Most I spend a fair amount of time thinking about my future husband. It’s the kind of thing you do when you know he’s coming and you’re writing a book series about cherishing...

Beautiful Male Brains: The Wonder of How Men Think, Love, and Navigate the World

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred

A love letter to the magnificence of ordinary men. Watch him for a moment. He doesn’t know you’re watching. He’s too absorbed in what he’s doing to notice. Maybe he’s crouched over a bicycle in the driveway, his hands moving with the...

Why People Fall in Love with Psychopaths: A Psychological and Forensic Analysis

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Feb 20, 2026 | Addiction, Anxiety, Communication, Counseling, Emotions, Love, Marriage Counseling, Relationships

Love is often described as mysterious, unpredictable, and irrational. But few forms of attraction puzzle psychologists, clinicians, and laypeople alike as much as the phenomenon of falling in love with a psychopath. How can highly intelligent, manipulative, and often...

Becoming More Resilient

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Dec 13, 2023 | Anxiety, Counseling, Depression, Emotions, Grief, Happiness, Joy, Love, Psychotherapy, Relationships

In psychology, resilience means being able to adapt to life’s misfortunes and setbacks without prolonged periods of distress. Ask yourself, when something goes wrong, do you tend to bounce back or fall apart? The good news is there’s actually a roadmap for...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher specializing in communication, human connection, and relationship dynamics. For more than three decades, she has developed innovative therapeutic approaches integrating psychology, emotional resilience, and meaningful personal change. She is the author of multiple books and research on relationships, mental health, and complementary and alternative approaches to healing.

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