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The Love Men Crave—But Rarely Find

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 2, 2026 | Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality

Heat and tenderness. Hunger and holding. Why every man deserves both. There is a type of love that most men have never had but have never stopped wanting. They don’t always have language for it. They may not have admitted it to anyone — perhaps not even to...

Full-Body Orgasms: The Infinite Peak

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 2, 2026 | Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

The experience most people never have — and everyone deserves. Full-body orgasms. Are they as good as they sound? Honey, they are better than anything you have ever imagined — and I say that as both a clinician and a woman who’s been there. This is not something...

The Male Dating Strike: Why Men Are Opting Out—and What Women Are Missing

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 31, 2026 | Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

A compassionate look at what men are struggling with the — and why I’d rather date a FedEx driver with a good heart. There is a quiet revolution happening in the modern landscape, and it isn’t being televised. It is being felt in the silence of unreturned texts, the...

Have a Beautiful Life!

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 30, 2026 | Passion, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality

A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some, it’s for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Men, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sexuality

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...

Why Attraction Sometimes Betrays Us: Why Intelligent, Loving People Repeatedly Choose Relationships That Hurt Them

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 28, 2026 | Love, Men, Relationships, Women

Understanding why we want what we want — and what it costs us when we don’t examine it. She sat across from me in my office — intelligent, self-aware, professionally accomplished, genuinely kind. She had spent fifteen years dating. She had read the books, done...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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