by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Men, Sacred, Sexuality, Women
How to find bliss by choosing a partner whose energy and metabolism is aligned with yours. In every conversation about compatibility, the usual suspects get their airtime: communication styles, shared values, attraction, life goals, whether you both want kids, whether...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Love, Sacred, Spirituality
Finding and honoring the aspects of each other’s universe that have deep meaning. Let me tell you what kills most long-term relationships. It’s not the affairs, though those are devastating. It’s not the financial disasters, though those will test you. It’s not even...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Joy, Love, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality
The first pillar of the Erotic Four — and why nothing else compares. We’ve been lied to. Not subtly, not occasionally — relentlessly and thoroughly lied to about what great sex actually is. The culture has sold us a story that the hottest sex is the newest sex. That...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Men, Sacred, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Where lust, love, devotion become one – and you discover each other. If Hot and Holy Love™ had a fun stepsister, her name would be Hot and Holy Sex™. She’d be wildly popular, slightly notorious, and you’d want to take her everywhere because people would absolutely...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Men, Sacred, Spirituality, Women
You’re going to need tattoos, red glitter, a mobile DJ, street dancers, and an elephant. Did I mention twerking? Picture this. You are standing at the edge of a crowd that is — for reasons you don’t yet understand — losing its mind with joy. Drums are...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Love, Men, Sacred, Sexuality, Women
The look that ruins him for anyone else. There’s a moment, just as your lips first brush against him, when everything changes—not because of what you’re doing with your mouth, but because of what you’re doing with your eyes. Most women close theirs...
