by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 14, 2026 | Eroticism, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women
Because the divine masculine deserves a standing ovation – schwing! In the grand tapestry of human existence, there are few subjects as simultaneously revered and ridiculed, celebrated and shamed, as the male penis. It is the original wand of creation, the divine...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 14, 2026 | Communication, Eroticism, Love, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality
Creating a shift from surviving to thriving, marked as happy, joyous, and free. In 1993, I sat in a quiet room at Santa Clara University, staring at the results of my study on communication apprehension among adult children of alcoholics. The data was clear: people...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 14, 2026 | Joy, Love, Men, Relationships, Sacred
Give your man the gift of pure joy and watch it transform him. There is a quiet magic in the world that often goes unnoticed, a kind of alchemy that transforms a man when he feels truly loved. It is not the grand gestures or the loud proclamations that create this...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 13, 2026 | Men, Relationships, Sacred, Spirituality, Women
By shining your light on others, you give them permission to rise to the occasion. This chapter is not about confidence, though confidence may follow from it. It is not about success, though success often accompanies it. It is not about self-esteem in the therapeutic...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 13, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred, Spirituality
Perhaps the greatest tragedy is not that life offers us too little. Perhaps the greatest tragedy is how much we never receive. I want to tell you about the moment I told a stranger to “Have a beautiful life.” That exchange was complete in a way that the original...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 12, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Sacred
Joy is arguably the most powerful force on the planet. Prologue: The Time Joy Ambushed Me in a Grocery Store Let me set the scene: I’m in Costco, a place where dreams go to die (or at least get bulk-bought and then forgotten in the back of a pantry). I’m pushing a...
