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The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 1, 2026 | Joy, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality

How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones.   Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit...

The Male Dating Strike: Why Men Are Opting Out—and What Women Are Missing

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 31, 2026 | Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

A compassionate look at what men are struggling with the — and why I’d rather date a FedEx driver with a good heart. There is a quiet revolution happening in the modern landscape, and it isn’t being televised. It is being felt in the silence of unreturned texts, the...

Have a Beautiful Life!

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 30, 2026 | Passion, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality

A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some; it’s for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Men, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sexuality

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...

Dancing on the Edge: A Cautionary Tale About Spiritual Discipline

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Fasting, Joy

If you’re going to walk up to the edge of life and look over into the precipice, you’d better know how to find your way back. Many of you know about my lifelong passion for fasting and have read my books and research. I’ve long credited fasting for all the flourishing...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and published researcher specializing in communication, human connection, and relationship dynamics. For more than three decades, she has developed innovative therapeutic approaches integrating psychology, emotional resilience, and meaningful personal change. She is the author of multiple books and research on relationships, mental health, and complementary and alternative approaches to healing.

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