by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 27, 2026 | Communication, Emotions, Happiness, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women
You deserve to be adored and valued for exactly who you are in this moment. You know how to love. You’ve spent a lifetime learning how to give it—how to show up, how to provide, how to protect, how to be the rock when the world feels shaky. You know how to be the...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 25, 2026 | Humor, Joy, Love, Marriage Counseling, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality
A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a “balls to the wall” life. The words erotic and eros are deeplply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 23, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Happiness, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Women
The woman who fears your hunger is not the one you’re here for. You’ve been told your whole life that wanting her—really wanting her, with a fire that burns through your veins and a longing that aches in your bones—is something to be controlled, minimized, or even...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 20, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred, Women
Cherishing the perfection in his imperfections. The Thing I Look Forward to Most I spend a fair amount of time thinking about my future husband. It’s the kind of thing you do when you know he’s coming and you’re writing a book series about cherishing...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 20, 2026 | Love, Passion, Sacred, Spirituality
How to create your own kingdom, not give two fucks, and stop treating everybody else’s opinions like they’re thunderbolts from Mount Sinai. Somewhere out there, a star is dying so spectacularly that it briefly outshines its entire galaxy. It doesn’t...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 19, 2026 | Joy, Love, Relationships, Sacred, Spirituality
When I was 16, I spent a fall weekend on a Church retreat on the South Side of Chicago with about 30 other teenagers. We stayed at Hyde Park Union Church with pastors from our local Church. Late Friday night, several of us went out and walked around the Church’s...
