by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 20, 2026 | Love, Men, Sexuality, Women
Sometimes the chemistry is so good we’re rendered stupid. You know what you want. You’ve done the work. You’ve sat with the wreckage of past relationships long enough to write a list worthy of a novella, complete with footnotes, appendices, and the...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 18, 2026 | Joy, Love, Passion, Relationships
The gentle revolution of a soft heart in a hard world. We live in a world that glorifies the hard charge. The hustle. The grind. The relentless pursuit of more—more success, more intensity, more fire. We’re taught to push through, to power up, to never let them see us...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 17, 2026 | Love, Men, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Why the sweetest way to ask is the most powerful. Two Women, One Weekend Two women want the same weekend. Big Sur. Fog rolling in off the Pacific, a room with a fireplace, and absolutely nowhere to be on Saturday morning. The first woman has been thinking about it for...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Love, Sacred, Spirituality
Finding and honoring the aspects of each other’s universe that have deep meaning. Let me tell you what kills most long-term relationships. It’s not the affairs, though those are devastating. It’s not the financial disasters, though those will test you. It’s not even...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Joy, Love, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality
The first pillar of the Erotic Four — and why nothing else compares. We’ve been lied to. Not subtly, not occasionally — relentlessly and thoroughly lied to about what great sex actually is. The culture has sold us a story that the hottest sex is the newest sex. That...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Eroticism, Love, Men, Sacred, Sexuality, Women
The look that ruins him for anyone else. There’s a moment, just as your lips first brush against him, when everything changes—not because of what you’re doing with your mouth, but because of what you’re doing with your eyes. Most women close theirs...
