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The Forbidden Thrill: How to Turn Public Spaces Into Your Private Playground

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Unlocking the exhilaration of high-stakes play in the middle of everyday life. There’s something electric about the idea of being caught, something intoxicating about the risk of someone seeing what they shouldn’t, about the thrill of knowing that at any...

Hitting on That Hot Guy: How Fortune Rewards the Brave

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Emotions, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Sexuality, Women

A guide to swooping in, stealing his heart, and leaving him begging for more. Have you ever seen a man so attractive you immediately talked yourself out of approaching him? Most women have. We notice him from across the room, imagine all the reasons he would not be...

Hidden in Plain Sight: The Magnificence We Miss In Others

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred, Spirituality

The greatest tragedy is not that magnificence is rare but we often fail to notice it until it is gone. I want to tell you about an average Tuesday when I took my tri-weekly adventure to Whole Foods. I was dancing at the meat counter to the Madonna they were blasting...

Mastering the Male Erogenous Map

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality, Women

The hidden map of his body: How to touch him where he never knew he wanted it. There’s a myth that men are simple creatures, that their pleasure is obvious and straightforward, that all it takes to undo them is a firm grip and a little enthusiasm. But any woman who’s...

Hunger: Touching and Fulfilling Our Deepest Yearnings

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Love

We become whatever we feed. So feed yourself wisely. Every human being is hungry. Some hunger for food. Some hunger for love. Some hunger for admiration. Some hunger for belonging. Some hunger for touch. Some hunger for meaning. Some hunger for God. From the moment we...

Beautiful Male Brains: The Wonder of How Men Think, Love, and Navigate the World

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 1, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred

A love letter to the magnificence of ordinary men. Watch him for a moment. He doesn’t know you’re watching. He’s too absorbed in what he’s doing to notice. Maybe he’s crouched over a bicycle in the driveway, his hands moving with the...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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