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Why a Man in a Kilt Is Proof That God Loves Women

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 18, 2026 | Humor, Men, Women

Pleats, pipes, and the holy gust of wind. It’s a bright Saturday morning on a Highland Games field. The grass is still damp. Somewhere behind the beer tent, a set of bagpipes is warming up with a sound like a goose being gently reasoned with. The smell of meat pies is...

Why I Believe Men Are Undervalued — And Why It Pisses People Off

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 5, 2026 | Dignity, Love, Men, Uncategorized

I’m not going to soften this. In fact, I think I’ll say it louder. My doctor, whom I’ll call Jim, warned me recently that some people aren’t going to like the title of my new book: Magnificent Men™: How Men Are Undervalued and How Worshipping and Being Worshipped Can...

Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women

Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...

Why Strong Men Crave to Be Held (And How to Let Yourself)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Sacred, Sexuality

Men’s hidden tenderness and unspoken longings may be the most erotic things on the planet. You were built to be unshakable—to stand firm in the storm, to carry the weight, to be the rock when everyone else is falling apart. You’ve spent a lifetime proving you don’t...

The Love You’ve Been Too Afraid to Claim (And How to Finally Take It)

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 28, 2026 | Love, Men, Passion, Sexuality, Women

You know you deserve. You know she wants you. The time is now. You know it’s there—that love. The kind that doesn’t just warm your heart but sets your soul on fire. The kind that doesn’t ask you to shrink, to hide, or to pretend, but instead sees all of you: your...

Why Attraction Sometimes Betrays Us: Why Intelligent, Loving People Repeatedly Choose Relationships That Hurt Them

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 28, 2026 | Love, Men, Relationships, Women

Understanding why we want what we want — and what it costs us when we don’t examine it. She sat across from me in my office — intelligent, self-aware, professionally accomplished, genuinely kind. She had spent fifteen years dating. She had read the books, done...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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