by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 27, 2026 | Love, Men, Women
Why making your desire unmistakable can change everything. The Man at the Grill It is a Saturday in late August, and there’s a man at the grill. He didn’t volunteer for the grill so much as drift toward it, the way certain men drift toward any job that gives...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 27, 2026 | Love, Men, Relationships, Women
Why the pursuit of love has never been more sophisticated — or more prone to failure. We have never had more information about relationships. More books, more podcasts, more therapeutic frameworks, more attachment theory explainers, more dating apps algorithmically...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 26, 2026 | Dignity, Men, Relationships, Sexuality
This is what healing looks like when it actually works. Everything written in this book up to this point has been, in one way or another, about the wound. About what was taken and when and how. About the armor that formed around the taking, and the cost of carrying...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 26, 2026 | Dignity, Love, Men, Sacred, Women, Worship
Because some kinds of love are too big for smaller words. The Flinch It happens at dinner parties. It happens at the dentist. It happened once in the checkout line at Costco, which is not where I expected to discuss the theology of desire, but there we were, between...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 25, 2026 | Dignity, Men
What women often mistake for strength — and what real masculine strength actually feels like in your body. Let us begin with the uncomfortable truth that most conversations about masculine strength carefully avoid: women are frequently terrible at identifying it. Not...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 24, 2026 | Dignity, Humor, Men, Sacred, Women, Worship
We rehabilitate men who have been chronically under-cherished. Welcome to the Sanctuary. We are a nonprofit organization, in the sense that nobody here is making any money, dedicated to the recovery and rehabilitation of men who have been chronically under-cherished....
