by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 13, 2026 | Joy, Love, Sacred, Spirituality
What a magnificent web we weave when we practice to receive. I want to tell you about the moment I told a stranger to “Have a beautiful life.” That exchange was complete in a way that the original exchange had not quite been. The blessing offered and the blessing...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Men, Sacred, Spirituality, Women
Give another human being the gift of helping them to see their beauty. There is a man at customer service at my local Whole Foods. He has worked there long enough that I know him, and one afternoon I was standing at the counter watching him work and I noticed...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 11, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred, Women
This is for you. Because you matter. I want to tell you about the moment I understood something I had not fully understood before. I had said something to a man — a compliment, specific and genuine, the kind this book has been arguing for throughout its length. I had...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 10, 2026 | Eroticism, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Women
The power of taking control: how to dominate him in a way that drives him wild. There’s a secret most women never learn, a truth that can transform the way a man looks at you, the way he craves you, the way he surrenders to you completely. And it’s this:...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 7, 2026 | Psychotherapy, Sacred, Sexuality
What it’s like to have a therapist who has vision into unseen realms. Pull Up a Chair. Imagine inviting three people to a dinner party. Carl Jung.Jesus.And Buddha. At first, they might appear to disagree about almost everything. One speaks the language of archetypes...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 5, 2026 | Love, Men, Sacred
Because some strongly held cultural beliefs deserve a well-placed grenade. While revising my website recently, I added a short biographical sentence that stopped me cold: “I’m an author and provocateur…” I raised my left eyebrow. Then my right. Provocateur? Whoa. That...
