by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 17, 2026 | Love, Men, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Why the sweetest way to ask is the most powerful. Two Women, One Weekend Two women want the same weekend. Big Sur. Fog rolling in off the Pacific, a room with a fireplace, and absolutely nowhere to be on Saturday morning. The first woman has been thinking about it for...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 16, 2026 | Love, Marriage, Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women, Worship
Saving marriages since 2005. One blow job at a time. On a lazy morning in early 2026, I did something that made me seriously question my own judgment. I paid the United States government $350 to file a federal trademark application for “Dr. Blow Job™.” Yes, you read...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Women
Break from the herd and choose the hero. Let us begin with a truth so fierce it might sting: You are not the problem. You are not shallow, nor are you broken. You are a woman who has been conditioned by a culture that turned love into a commodity and men into products...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Men, Relationships, Sexuality, Women
Aligning the four pillars of The Erotic Four to strengthen the foundation of your relationship. Love isn’t something that simply happens to you. It’s something you build—brick by brick, choice by choice, with the kind of intentionality that separates the thriving from...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality
What many men feel deeply but rarely say out loud. There is a difference between having sex and making love, and many men feel that difference far more deeply than the world gives them credit for. Modern culture often portrays men as creatures driven primarily by...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 15, 2026 | Mysticism, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality
Choose to say, “I choose you to walk besides you because you are my sacred love.” Let’s talk about the one element of lasting love that nobody wants to admit is entirely voluntary. You can’t manufacture chemistry. You either burn when you touch someone or you don’t....
