by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 1, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Grief, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Love, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality
How I emerged from fire with cosmic cojones. Let’s be real: most testicles—as beautiful as they are—are just along for the ride. In terms of participation, they’re like that passive-aggressive roommate who never does the dishes but somehow always gets credit...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 1, 2026 | Communication, Men, Relationships, Sacred, Women
Create a relationship so emotionally generous and reverential that both people’s true character becomes impossible to hide. Let me tell you exactly what I am about to do in this article, and why I am not even slightly sorry about it. I am going to tell women to...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 31, 2026 | Couples Therapy, Eroticism, Happiness, Joy, Love, Marriage Counseling, Men, Passion, Relationships, Sexuality, Women
A compassionate look at what men are struggling with the — and why I’d rather date a FedEx driver with a good heart. There is a quiet revolution happening in the modern landscape, and it isn’t being televised. It is being felt in the silence of unreturned texts, the...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 30, 2026 | Emotions, Eroticism, Happiness, Humor, Joy, Passion, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sacred, Sexuality, Spirituality
A beautiful life chock full of great love, ecstasy, kindness and humor. It’s not just for some; it’s for everyone. There are four words I say randomly to strangers everyday. I put them on my business cards. I close my emails with them. I mean them every single...
by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Mar 29, 2026 | Men, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Sexuality
Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...