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Becoming More Resilient

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Dec 13, 2023 | Anxiety, Depression, Emotions, Grief, Happiness, Joy, Love, Psychotherapy, Relationships

In psychology, resilience means being able to adapt to life’s misfortunes and setbacks without prolonged periods of distress. Ask yourself, when something goes wrong, do you tend to bounce back or fall apart? The good news is there’s actually a roadmap for...

Covert Verbal Abuse: Subtle But Damaging

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Sep 11, 2020 | Anxiety, Relationships | 0 comments

The damage left behind by verbal and emotional abuse can be just as bad, and in some cases even worse, than physical verbal abuse. There’s always a danger that emotional damage caused by verbal abuse will contributes to physical health conditions, anxiety, PTSD,...

The New Normal: How COVID-19 Changed the Way We Live and Work

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Apr 16, 2020 | Anxiety, Communication, Marriage, Relationships | 0 comments

A global, novel virus that keeps us contained in our homes—maybe for months—is already reorienting our relationship to government, to the outside world, even to each other. Most of us are accustomed to driving to our place of work, be it our own business or place of...

Signs of Stonewalling: Giving the Silent Treatment

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 11, 2018 | Communication, Marriage, Relationships | 0 comments

As the word implies, stonewalling is building a figurative wall. It is an act of withdrawing from a conversation by refusing to engage or participate in whatever another person is discussing. Usually, that other person is asking something from the stonewaller. In...

Having a Relationship With a Sex Addict

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Jul 1, 2018 | Addiction, Relationships, Sexuality | 0 comments

As a relationship and addiction specialist, I know how difficult it can be to be in a relationship with a sex addict. Many partners of sex addicts still want to be optimistic and think the best of their partner. If you are wondering if your significant other might be...

Understanding Abuse in Relationships

by Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. | Dec 15, 2017 | Relationships | 0 comments

That there are different types of abuse that occur in relationships many of which cause couples to seek counseling. You may be psychologically, physically, and/or sexually mistreated. All kinds of abuse ought to be given serious attention as horrible effects can...
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RANDI FREDRICKS, PH.D.

Randi Fredricks, Ph.D. has an unusual habit of following interesting questions far beyond the point where most people would have stopped. The result is that she somehow spent her entire career trying to understand men, women, desire, love, and human flourishing. She never intended for it to get this out of hand, but somewhere along the way, things escalated into multiple books, original therapeutic models, published research, hundreds of chapters, and an alarming number of trademark applications. Welcome to the madness, where the sacred and the obscene do the dance of love.

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