The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The Silent Loneliness of Good Men: Why Some Men Stop Trying
Why some fundamentally good men eventually stop reaching out. The Day He Quietly Stopped Hoping There is a man you already know. You may not recognize him by a single dramatic moment, because there wasn't one. He didn't announce anything. He didn't slam a door or...
Using Blindfolds to Make Sex Even Hotter
The art of sensory deprivation: How to blindfold him—and blow his mind. There's a moment, just after you slip the blindfold over his eyes, when the entire dynamic between you shifts. Suddenly, he's not just with you—he's yours. Not because you've forced him, but...
Teasing Out People’s Magnificence
Give another human being the gift of helping them to see their beauty. There is a man at customer service at my local Whole Foods. He has worked there long enough that I know him, and one afternoon I was standing at the counter watching him work and I noticed...
The Erotic Power of Enthusiastic Pleading: Why Men Love a Woman Who Begs to Delight Them
Pretty plllease, let me give you something that would make you ridiculously happy. The Lost Art of Joyful Begging Somewhere between what we have been taught about relationships and what we actually desire lives a particular kind of energy that most people have never...
The Profound Responsibility of a Man’s Heart
This is for you. Because you matter. I want to tell you about the moment I understood something I had not fully understood before. I had said something to a man — a compliment, specific and genuine, the kind this book has been arguing for throughout its length. I had...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
