The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The 4 Most Dangerous Behaviors in Your Relationship
Master these insights and deepen trust, passion and connection. Most relationships don’t end because of a single blowout fight or betrayal. They die a slower, quieter death—eroded by habits that chip away at trust, respect, and intimacy over time. After decades of...
The Hidden Cost of Harmful Fantasies: How Thoughts of Hurting Another Hurt You
While you're hurting her in your mind, you're hurting yourself in real time. The Fantasies We Rarely Discuss There is a category of fantasy we almost never talk about in polite company, in therapy intake forms, or in books about men and desire. It is not the fantasy...
Why The Flaws Of A Good Man Become Precious
Cherishing the perfection in his imperfections. The Thing I Look Forward to Most I spend a fair amount of time thinking about my future husband. It's the kind of thing you do when you know he's coming and you're writing a book series about cherishing men. I think...
How to Become a Supernova. And Not Give a Poot What Anyone Thinks
How to create your own kingdom, not give two fucks, and stop treating everybody else's opinions like they're thunderbolts from Mount Sinai. Somewhere out there, a star is dying so spectacularly that it briefly outshines its entire galaxy. It doesn't apologize for the...
Mystic Psychotherapy: When Psychotherapists are Mystics
What it's like to have a therapist who has vision into unseen realms. Modern psychotherapy presents itself as a scientific and clinical discipline—grounded in diagnosis, evidence-based modalities, and professional ethics. Yet beneath the language of manuals, outcomes...
