The Well-Loved Man: What Happens When a Man Finally Feels Safe
This is what healing looks like when it actually works. Everything written in this book up to this point has been, in one way or another, about the wound. About what was taken and when and how. About the armor that formed around the taking, and the cost of carrying...
How to Identify a Strong Man: What Real Masculine Strength Actually Looks Like
What women often mistake for strength — and what real masculine strength actually feels like in your body. Let us begin with the uncomfortable truth that most conversations about masculine strength carefully avoid: women are frequently terrible at identifying it. Not...
Living an Erotic Life: The Art of Going All In
A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a "balls to the wall" life. The words erotic and eros are deeply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of desire and...
Practicing Aggressive Grace: The Holy Fool is Alive and Well
Aggressive grace is spiritual warfare and the weapons are mercy, light and love. In a world that often feels increasingly fragmented, guarded, and transactional, the traditional concept of "grace" can sometimes feel inadequate—or at least, too quiet for the noise of...
Your Hunger for Her Isn’t Weakness—It’s Sacred
The woman who fears your hunger is not the one you’re here for. You’ve been told your whole life that wanting her—really wanting her, with a fire that burns through your veins and a longing that aches in your bones—is something to be controlled, minimized, or even...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971


