The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The Physiology of Ecstasy: Where Science, Sex & The Sacred Meet
What your body is actually doing when it loses its mind — and why your nervous system deserves a standing ovation. Your body knows things your brain hasn't admitted yet. Long before consciousness catches up with its own experience, your nervous system is already six...
The Well-Loved Man: What Happens When a Man Finally Feels Safe
This is what healing looks like when it actually works. Everything written in this book up to this point has been, in one way or another, about the wound. About what was taken and when and how. About the armor that formed around the taking, and the cost of carrying...
Why I Use the Word Worship — And Why It Makes People Nervous
Because some kinds of love are too big for smaller words. The Flinch It happens at dinner parties. It happens at the dentist. It happened once in the checkout line at Costco, which is not where I expected to discuss the theology of desire, but there we were, between...
How to Identify a Strong Man: What Real Masculine Strength Actually Looks Like
What women often mistake for strength — and what real masculine strength actually feels like in your body. Let us begin with the uncomfortable truth that most conversations about masculine strength carefully avoid: women are frequently terrible at identifying it. Not...
Living an Erotic Life: The Art of Going All In
A life fully inhabited — Sacred, saucy, and completely without apology. When someone says that are living an erotic life they mean they are living a "balls to the wall" life. The words erotic and eros are deeply connected. Eros is the spiritual force of desire and...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
