The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
Mystic Psychotherapy: When Psychotherapists are Mystics
What it's like to have a therapist who has vision into unseen realms. Modern psychotherapy presents itself as a scientific and clinical discipline—grounded in diagnosis, evidence-based modalities, and professional ethics. Yet beneath the language of manuals, outcomes...
A Tribute to Jesse Jackson
When I was 16, I spent a fall weekend on a Church retreat on the South Side of Chicago with about 30 other teenagers. We stayed at Hyde Park Union Church with pastors from our local Church. Late Friday night, several of us went out and walked around the Church’s...
Try a Little Tenderness: The Sweetness of Softness
The gentle revolution of a soft heart in a hard world. We live in a world that glorifies the hard charge. The hustle. The grind. The relentless pursuit of more—more success, more intensity, more fire. We’re taught to push through, to power up, to never let them see us...
Discipline and Surrender: The Balance of Strength and Softness
The explosive release after the discipline ends. Love is not about losing control. It is about choosing—every single day—to trust instead of grip, to listen instead of lecture, to hold instead of fix. It’s the art of knowing when to stand firm, and when to soften....
The Anti-Contempt Blueprint: How the Erotic Four Resolve Resentments
Aligning the four pillars to strengthen the foundation of your relationship. Love isn’t something that simply happens to you. It’s something you build—brick by brick, choice by choice, with the kind of intentionality that separates the thriving from the surviving. But...
