The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
Why It’s Never a Good Idea to Have Sex With Your Therapist
Some boundaries are never meant to be crossed. Therapy is a space of profound vulnerability, trust, and healing. It’s where we bring our deepest fears, our most painful wounds, and our most intimate struggles, trusting that our therapist will hold that space with...
Dancing on the Edge: A Cautionary Tale About Spiritual Discipline
If you’re going to walk up to the edge of life and look over into the precipice, you’d better know how to find your way back. Many of you know about my lifelong passion for fasting and have read my books and research. I've long credited fasting for all the flourishing...
Why Strong Men Crave to Be Held (And How to Let Yourself)
Men’s hidden tenderness and unspoken longings may be the most erotic things on the planet. You were built to be unshakable—to stand firm in the storm, to carry the weight, to be the rock when everyone else is falling apart. You’ve spent a lifetime proving you don’t...
Adult Children of Alcoholics and the Erotic Four
Healing dysfunctional communication patterns and finding divine love. Every relationship expert will tell you that communication is the keystone of a healthy relationship. For me, this hasn't just been a clinical observation; it’s been a lifelong pursuit of truth that...
The Love You’ve Been Too Afraid to Claim (And How to Finally Take It)
You know you deserve. You know she wants you. The time is now. You know it’s there—that love. The kind that doesn’t just warm your heart but sets your soul on fire. The kind that doesn’t ask you to shrink, to hide, or to pretend, but instead sees all of you: your...
Song Recommendation:
— “Baba O’Riley,” The Who, 1971
