The Velvety Steel Balls Radiance Project (or something like it)
The 4 Most Dangerous Behaviors in Your Relationship
Master these insights and deepen trust, passion and connection. Most relationships don’t end because of a single blowout fight or betrayal. They die a slower, quieter death—eroded by habits that chip away at trust, respect, and intimacy over time. After decades of...
The Beauty of The Male Body: The Wonder of A Man’s Form
The beauty we forget to see. Imagine a room containing one hundred naked men. Not arranged for spectacle, not lined up for judgment, not posed for a calendar or a contest. Just standing there, ordinary and unguarded, the way men actually are when no one has told them...
The Hidden Cost of Harmful Fantasies: How Thoughts of Hurting Another Hurt You
While you're hurting her in your mind, you're hurting yourself in real time. The Fantasies We Rarely Discuss There is a category of fantasy we almost never talk about in polite company, in therapy intake forms, or in books about men and desire. It is not the fantasy...
The Five Thieves of Love: Make Sure to Check Your Pockets After They Bump Into You
By the time you notice what's stolen, the thieves are on a beach in Tahiti drinking a Mai Tai. The Pickpocket on the Sidewalk Most people imagine that love dies the way it does in movies. There is a discovered text message, a slammed door, a confession delivered...
How to Become a Supernova. And Not Give a Poot What Anyone Thinks
How to create your own kingdom, not give two fucks, and stop treating everybody else's opinions like they're thunderbolts from Mount Sinai. Somewhere out there, a star is dying so spectacularly that it briefly outshines its entire galaxy. It doesn't apologize for the...
